Wake Me Up When September Ends

I can't help it but to blog, AGAIN.. (banyak masa sungguh eh ko khai). Just wanna a say a big thanks for those who send their regards and well-wishes. Terharu saye.... :)

Sempena hari jadiku terletak dalam bulan yang suci ini, aku nak make full use keistimewaannye.

1. Pass my A levels with flying colours (insyaallah..)
2. Getting into a local university (tak nak menyusahkan mak bapak aku lah blajar luar negeri)
3. Menjadi seorang anak yg mithali kpd ibubapa (bkn aku jahat budaknye.. cumer nak jadi lebih baik)
4. Menolong ibu di pasar (ni mesti.. raye nak dekat!)
5. Kemas segala document aku yang berserak rabak macam reban ayam
6. Read more books ( buku yang slalu bace aku.. bkn aku bace dorang)
7. Baju raye pakai last year nye tak perlu beli baru (1st day jelah nmpknye beraye)
8. Menjadi abang yang bertanggungjawab kpd adik2nye
9. Find a job after A's ( sebagai abg, perlulah sumbang kpd financial keluarga)
10. Mengeratkan lagi tali siraturrahim dgn sahabat2ku yg lamer ku tak jumpe
11. Mengatam Al-Quran untuk kali kedua (hai.. kalau aku lebih rajin last time kan baik gitu)
12. Menjadi seorang imam yang lebih baik (sudah sekian lama ku tk menghafal surah2 baru)
13. Terus mengejar impianku untuk menjadi juruterbang (susah tu mmg susah.. tapi kene berusaha)
14. Pegi gym (workout untuk kebaikan sendiri.. sedikit sebanyak badan mcm Kaka dah orite lah.. haha..)
15. Part of the NSmen soocer first-team. (rabak khai.. siang2 dah pikir NS)
16. If given opportunity, pursue further to play club level (insyaallah kalau aku tidak disuruh main goalkeeper)
17. Mendapat tab guitar lagu TERKINI(main guitar pon lagu2 zaman dulu beb.. retro.. ni lah kes blajar dari ayahku)
18. Last nye aderlah.. untuk aku tau sendiri

So, thats my 18 wishes for my 18th birthday!.. dah tue bangke aku ni. tak lamer lagi dah 81thn, cucu dah keliling mendengar cerita zaman remaja aku.. So, kenelah zaman remaje aku ni dicorak dgn pencapaian2 dan pengalaman2 menarik supaya aku dpt kongsi kpd dorang2 tu. Insyaallah.. yang penting berusaha..

klah, sebelom ku pergi membawa diri menjejak langkah ke medan peperangan A levels yang semakin hampiri ini, marilah kite renungi bersama-sama zaman nostalgik ku bagaimana aku dibesarkan hingga ke hari ini.

Mawi belajar dari aku sebenarnye membotakkan kepala.

Ni masa aku dah pandai naik kereta roda ni.. Zaman inilah aku menjadi seorang pembunuh melenggek segala anak2 kucing yang aku nampak.

Ni sebenarnye aku baru dpt lari dari penjara.. tapi kene masuk dlm lockup balek. Alah.. mcm cite Prison Break tu.. dorang buat psl kehidupan aku actually.

Ni plak semasa aku 6thn.. time semangat Hang Tuah.. Pernah ku perform di khalayak ramai dgn berpakaian ini dan menonjolkan ilmu silat aku yg tak seberape tu.. Kerisku plak dibuat khas dari cardboard.. Kalau korang nak tau, aku dpt 2nd dlm competition tu. not bad eh.

Oh.. ni plak semasa aku dpt lesson pertamaku di Desaru. Actually kakiku tak sampai menekan pedalnye so aku letak bag at my behind. Pandai kan aku..

Aaah.. ni maser zaman menengah. Aku digelar 'budak seluar ketat' kerana nak saved duit tak nak beli seluar baru walaupun kaki aku tu dah besar mcm pokok pisang. Maklumlah.. sampai skarang aku masih cycle ke skolah.. camne kaki aku tk grow.. haha. Yang hairannye, ramai plak peminat tat time.. taklah hansem sgt kan.. tak tau lah..

Alright everyone, taking care.. Selamtz!

I'll Be Back After A's!

Well, well.. Prelims are finally over. Which is both good and bad news. Good news is that i can now focus entirely on my A's but the bad news is that A's is drawing near!

I guessed i should not explain it any further, if not it will be as long as the other past entries which i did. haha. Alright, lets start talking about something new. Something which everyone will go through in life... which is... relationship. I've read quite a number of articles based on how to become a gd partner and etc.. and i find it quite useful for everyone.

Why i chose this topic because basically, my friends (the guys) always shared about how they fail to either win a girl's heart or emo because they just broke up. Pity u know. I myself not good in this but sometimes i do try to make an effort to advise them. Well.. i think it is important to see our own mistakes.. although its very difficult to do so. Most of the time, we end up blaming the other party because of a failed relationship. Remember.. *erm2* love is beautiful and we have to respect love like we respect ourselves.. chey.. :)

TIPS:

1. Strong in religion
- This element of religion is very useful. No religion teaches us to be bad. Religion teaches us to be patient and learn how to react to certain situations. We learnt to respect people, including our partner. I can bet you ur relationship will rarely have arguments. Serious!

2. Confident in yourself
- As Oasis's saying goes " Don't look back in anger". Sometimes the grass are greener at the other side. So look forward and think positive. Old flames are difficult to go away but if you still love him/her, remember.. as long as he/she hasn't got married, you still got chance. Must think that way aite. And of cos, learnt from your past failures and don't repeat it.

3. Moments Of Romance
- When you are down and everything seems to go wrong, do not let it loose completely. Bring back the memories, moments before the courtship, the time when u wanna tackle her, the time when u two had a perfect time together, the time when u said I MISS YOU or I LOVE YOU.. cewahh! Bring back all those memories and confirm, you will cherish ur partner more.

4. No to one-sided
-Remember.. Don't do things just to please your partner alone. In a r'ship, both parties need to play their part. Happy together-gether, sad together-gether, everything must experience together lah! That will be better right? If there is anything to be discussed, go ahead! Share what u like and wat u dislike and understand each other's interest.. aite? You Never Walk Alone!

5. Advice
-Advising each other is important so as to remain strong in the relationship. But of cos, let ur tone be nice when u're advising. Don't shout lah, of cos, the other party will be pissed off. Aperdah..

6. Don't look down on ur partner
-As the saying goes again, " No one is perfect". Accept the way ur partner is. Remember.. inner beauty is much more important cos it will last for a lifetime. Even if ur partner is not as pretty as Siti Nurhaliza or as handsome as Taufik Batisah, ur partner is already a god's gift. So, appreciate ur partner!

7. Promise
-Promise is a very delicate thing which can easily be broken. So be careful the next time when u want to make a promise. Do not promise the things that u know u cant do it bcos, once broken it is considered sold! u sold his/her trust away! Trust is very impt to keep the relationship strong, so do not give it away cheaply!

8. Always be on her side
-This goes especially to the guys.(termasok aku lah ni) Usually guys take for granted that the girls is always ok. Not good man! Must make an effort to be with her always.. cos remember, u choose her to be ur lovely partner right? So.. cherish them and dont neglect them! sadist u know.. human beings do have feelings which need to be taken care of.

9. Communication
-This is an important aspect in the relationship. Remember.. when having problems, share and solve it together. Got plans, discuss. Got anything to share, just share. Don't keep2. The best thing is, communicate in person.. until both party understand it so that there will be no misunderstandings.

10. No harsh words
-Lastly, do not ever scold or scream at ur partner.. especially guys again in this case. Mood swing or having a bad day, at least, do not affect it to ur partner too. Control ur voice when u're angry and control ur actions when u're pissed off. As guys, u need to know that girls is an emotional being, so.. learn to keep cool and use ur brain, not ur feelings! As Mawi always said, " Hidup ni mesti kene chill... baru WORLD!"

On a personal note, im not lah the hitch or anythin. Just trying to share some things which i thought will be useful to u all also. As far as i know, i still have alot to learnt from this. But watever it is.. budak2, ingat! study comes first. dengar lah kate mak bapak. jgnlah matair2 dulu.. tu later in life can.. kalau dah gatal, kahwin sudah. haha. sori tu yg slalu mak i yg ckp. anw, do put ur studies as ur first priority. And if u do have a gf/bf, AT LEAST ah.. dun let it affect ur studies. klah, sebagai akhir kata sebelom aku gone for good for my A's, do not blame fate if we havent put in effort. So what are you waiting for?? work it out man.. Selamtz!

funny soccer.